There are tears and smiles not only on one day of the year...but if on this exact day they feel somehow more shared and more special, then you have the right to do as you wish.
XOXO
(Keep in mind that this is an item made from polymerclay - it is hard and durable but if you force it or if you throw it, it could brake. So make sure you wear your lovely art responsible and the way you and everyone can see it but also where it won't be squished and pushed too hard!)